How did you first find the Sisters and your way into the habit?
I moved to San Francisco and lived hedonistically for the first two years. Then I met the Sisters through my friend Norman, who was Sister Luscious Lashes. I was at the Midnight Sun when she walked in, a gorgeous clown showgirl nun. I learned about the activism and the HIV and AIDS work the Sisters were doing and started volunteering as my secular self. I was immediately impressed by their bravery and compassion. My head and my heart exploded and I realised, oh my god, I care. I joined in 1987, almost forty years ago.
What was it about the Sisters that clicked so strongly?
I grew up in Catholic education and quickly learned there were two kinds of nuns. Some were rigid and you did not ask questions. I did once and got snapped at. Noted.
But others worked on the ground in women’s shelters, leading with humility rather than piety. I suspect many of them were lesbians. They understood faith as something fluid and personal, not something to weaponise. That spirit is exactly what the Sisters embody. When I found them, I recognised something real.
The Sisters have lasted since 1979. Why have they survived when so many groups have not?
I always say Sisters are born, not made. Each one answers a calling and a desire to be of service. Many of us share a deep conviction to speak for the marginalised and to demand equality, regardless of race, gender, sexuality, ability, age, or status.
We are not just colleagues, we are family. Every new Sister brings a new passion, cause, or community. That constant evolution is how you survive nearly five decades.
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