"A weight has lifted": Former NRL player Kane Evans opens up after coming out as gay

Former National Rugby League (NRL) forward Kane Evans has spoken of a sense of relief and freedom after publicly coming out as gay.

Evans, who played at the top level in Australia and later in the UK with Hull FC, said he had spent years coming to terms with his identity before deciding to share his story. Now, he says, he feels able to live openly and authentically for the first time.

Describing the experience as liberating, Evans said the weight of keeping his sexuality private had been difficult, particularly in a sport traditionally seen as hyper-masculine. “I feel peace within, and I feel like a weight has lifted off my shoulders,” he said. 

The 34-year-old revealed he had been grappling with his sexuality since his teenage years. “I’ve been fighting a war within since I was about 15 years old and it’s not sustainable,” he said, adding that speaking publicly had brought immediate relief. “Even now I feel a bit more free, just by saying it out loud, I’ve brought it to the light.” 

Evans’ decision to come out, he added, was motivated in part by a desire to be honest with himself and to help others. “I’ve carried it around my whole life. I’m here today to show people that you don’t have to live like that,” he said. 

He also acknowledged the fear involved in going public, describing the interview as confronting. “This is definitely my worst nightmare. But I know if I surrender, it’s just going to be a start to a new life,” he said. 

Evans becomes only the second male player in Australian rugby league history to come out as gay, following Ian Roberts, who did so in 1995 while still playing and is widely regarded as a trailblazer in the sport.  The scarcity of openly gay male players in rugby league has long been noted, with Evans’ announcement seen as a significant moment for visibility and inclusion.

His decision has been welcomed by many within the sport and beyond, with supporters praising his courage. Former teammates and figures in the game have suggested his story could help others facing similar struggles and contribute to changing attitudes.

By sharing his journey, Evans hopes to challenge stereotypes and encourage greater acceptance within the game. “I know that there are people who are struggling with the same struggle that I’ve gone through… I’m very blessed that I can come here and talk to you and be able to save a life or two,” he said. 

While acknowledging the challenges that can come with speaking openly, Evans said the response so far had been overwhelmingly positive - and empowering. “Now I’ve spoken about it, I’ve shattered all those chains. They’ve lost their power,” he added.