Roanoke mourns the loss of drag king Blake Sturm with candlelight vigils and tributes
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Roanoke in Virginia is mourning the loss of Blake Sturm, a vibrant member of the LGBTQ+ community, whose body was discovered outside his home earlier this week. Blake, 25, had been reported missing on 30 August and was found deceased on Tuesday, 2 September. Police have stated that the death does not appear suspicious, though an investigation remains ongoing.
Blake was known for entertaining crowds with his drag performances and creating a space of acceptance. His obituary paints a portrait of a person who embraced life with colour and courage. He was a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community, a certified welder, and someone who found beauty in the overlooked and broken.
Blake’s family and friends gathered on Friday evening for a memorial service filled with music, stories, and heartfelt tributes. A second service was held at Briery Branch Church of the Brethren in Dayton, Virginia, where mourners lit candles and shared memories of Blake’s kindness, humour, and resilience.
In lieu of flowers, the family has requested donations to the Trevor Project and the local Humane Society - causes close to Blake’s heart.
“Blake’s spark disappeared too soon,” his family wrote. “But the light he brought into the world will never be extinguished.”
Friends remembered him for his uplifting and bubbly personality.
“Someone you could always call, and he’s always there, and he’s always happy,” said one friend.
“There’s not a lot of drag kings in the area; he was fully trying to go full steam ahead in creating the organisation for drag kings here locally. So, I know that presence is going to be greatly missed,” added another.
If you are struggling with your mental health or have been affected by this story, support is available:
United Kingdom:
- Samaritans – Call 116 123 (free, 24/7) or visit www.samaritans.org
- LGBT Foundation – Call 0345 3 30 30 30 or visit www.lgbt.foundation
United States:
- The Trevor Project – Call 1-866-488-7386 or text ‘START’ to 678678, or visit www.thetrevorproject.org
