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# GEMS advisor steps down
- URL: https://www.scenemag.co.uk/gems-advisor-steps-down/
- Published: 2013-06-16T18:02:14.000Z
- Updated: 2013-06-17T08:27:05.000Z
- Description: Peter Otto, the advisor and fundraiser to the Gay Elderly Men’s Society (GEMS) has resigned. During his 16 years at the helm of GEMS the organisation has considerably increased its profile and the profile of older people in the city. GEMS are a social group. They aim to reduce isolation and to help
- Author: Besi
- Tags: News

![Peter Otto](https://www.scenemag.co.uk/content/images/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/web_otto_peter.jpg)

Peter Otto

**Peter Otto, the advisor and fundraiser to the Gay Elderly Men’s Society (GEMS)** has resigned. During his 16 years at the helm of **GEMS** the organisation has considerably increased its profile and the profile of older people in the city.

**GEMS** are a social group. They aim to reduce isolation and to help support and take care of mature gay men in Brighton and Hove. They hold regular social events and organise trips to the theatre and local tourist attractions. The group is an important mechanism for older gay men to maintain their friendship networks.

The former *Older Lesbian & Gay Men’s Forum* was created in 1997 with the help of *Age Concern* under the guidance of their Director, **Dorothy Engmann**. In 2002 the men and women decided to go their separate ways and **GEMS** was born.

Over the years **GEMS** has had representatives on Brighton & Hove Council committees, has been a member of the International Lesbian & Gay Association (ILGA), the European Gay Elderly Forum with the EU in Bruxelles and for the last five years **Peter Otto** has been a guest lecturer at the Solomon Institution in Tunbridge Wells on the subject of *Life Experience of Older Gay Men.*

In 2011, **GEMS** were awarded the *Queens Award for Voluntary Services to the Community* and received a special *Golden Handbag Recognition Award* at the Golden Handbag Show in the same year.

Since 2008 **Peter** has organised the annual *Aids Memorial Concert* under the patronage of **GEMS** and with the support of Brighton & Hove Council.

The Mayor of Brighton & Hove is a patron of **GEMS** and the members of **GEMS** enjoy an annual reception at the Mayor’s Parlour. The Mayor also attends their annual Candlelight Dinner before Christmas.

**In his resignation email, Peter, wrote:**

> *“After 16 years at the helm of *GEMS*, I would like to take the opportunity to thank the Mayor of Brighton & Hove, the Council of Brighton & Hove and all the official organisations and friends who helped and supported me to turn *GEMS* into the successful social group it is today. *GEMS* has been my baby, but the baby has grow and developed opinions I cannot agree with, so its time to let it go. I wish all members of *GEMS* the very best for the future.”*

![Cllr Geoffrey Bowden](https://www.scenemag.co.uk/content/images/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/web-20058.jpg)

Cllr Geoffrey Bowden

**Councillor Geoffrey Bowden, a prospective trustee at GEMS, said:**

> *“Peter has worked tirelessly to highlight the isolation that many gay men can encounter in their old age. GEMS has provided a lifeline for many, who grew up in an era when the closet door was kept firmly shut.*  
>  
> *“Peter’s energy and good humour will be sorely missed. He will certainly be a very hard act to follow.”*

**GEMS** meets the last Friday of every month at Dorset Gardens Methodist Church, Brighton from 7pm-10pm. Membership is free and the organisation survives from donations and grant applications.

Stephen Grainger remains as the Social Events Co-ordinator.

**To contact GEMS, [EMAIL:](mailto: info@gems-bh.org.uk)**